Best LDS Resources to Help with Same-Sex Attraction, Gay, LBGT
Same-sex attraction refers to emotional, physical, or sexual attraction to a person of the same gender. The experience of same-sex attraction is not the same for everyone. Some people may feel exclusively attracted to the same gender, while others may feel attracted to both genders.
The resources below explain the LDS Church position about same-sex attraction and homosexual behavior. They also provide an understanding about this complex human experience. No matter what challenges we may face in life, we are all children of God, deserving of each other’s kindness and compassion (Romans 8:16–17). When we create a supportive environment, we build charity and empathy for each other and benefit from our combined perspectives and faith.
See a list of resources about same-sex attraction in multiple languages at the bottom of this page.
- Download a 1-page summary handout of key LDS resources on same-sex attraction
- Read a Guide for Family, Friends, and Church Leaders on Same-Sex Attraction
See the following sections below:
- Articles on LDS365.com about Same-Sex Attraction
- Pages on LDS.org about Same-Sex Attraction
- General Authorities & Officers Speak About Same-Sex Attraction
- Community and Other Resources about Same-Sex Attraction, Gay, LBGT
- Language Resources from the Church
Articles on LDS365.com about Same-Sex Attraction:
Over the weekend, North Star International held its annual conference with faith-affirming Latter-day Saints, their families, and church leaders. On Saturday, they debuted the video "I am a Latter-day Saint, I am LGBTQ, and This is What I Know." Download an MP3...read more
Attend the 2019 North Star conference this weekend to hear firsthand accounts from LGBT individuals and families about how they navigate the complex journey of reconciling faith with sexual orientation and gender identity. This year’s conference is at the Sheraton in...read more
In an interview with Leading Saints, Bennett and Becky Borden explain why they married in the temple after 20 years living in same-sex relationships. Bennett and Becky Borden both experience same-sex attraction and were both in same-sex marriages and relationships for...read more
North Star is a faith-affirming resource for Latter-day Saints addressing sexual orientation and gender identity, and who desire to live in harmony with the teachings of Jesus Christ and the doctrines and values of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints....read more
In November 2017, Elder M. Russell Ballard said, "We need to listen to and understand what our LGBT brothers and sisters are feeling and experiencing. Certainly, we must do better than we have done in the past so that all members feel they have a spiritual home where...read more
Elder M. Russell Ballard spoke to BYU students at a campus devotional on November 14, 2017, and answered questions that covered a variety of topics. The following are some of his comments answering the question of what message he had for the LGBT young single adults....read more
"I want anyone who is a member of the Church who is gay or lesbian to know I believe you have a place in the kingdom and I recognize that sometimes it may be difficult for you to see where you fit in the Lord’s Church, but you do," explained President M. Russell...read more
The 2018 North Star Conference is a faith-affirming resource for LDS individuals who experience same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria and wish to live a Christ-centered life. Hear firsthand accounts of LGBT individuals and families as they navigate the complex...read more
Parents and leaders can use the resources on LDS.org to better minister to youth who face emotional and mental issues. Sister Bonnie L. Oscarson, Young Women General President, explained, Because of our constant connection to social media we are much more aware of the...read more
The Church website Suicide Prevention and Ministering (suicide.lds.org) has been updated with additional resources to help leaders and members prevent suicide and to help leaders minister to individuals and their families impacted by suicide. The updated website has...read more
The Church provides many resources that can enhance gospel learning and help provide answers to doctrinal, historical, and social questions. Since many people are not aware of these resources, I've compiled the list below. I've also included reliable resources created...read more
Did you know that LDS.org has a section HopeandHelp.lds.org that provides a number of topic pages to support you or those you love in dealing with challenges of life? Life brings many challenges for every member of the human family. Some challenges are the result of...read more
Shortly after the Church updated their website MormonandGay.lds.org, North Star launched a website #TrueToHim. The site contains personal stories of Latter-day Saints explaining how they strive to find congruence and peace with gender identify and sexual...read more
In the Saturday afternoon session of LDS General Conference, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland spoke to people those whose lives seem to elude the “peaceful happy moments” celebrated in the hymn “There Is Sunshine in My Soul Today.” If for a time you are unable to echo the...read more
Last week, the Church added a new video and story to the MormonAndGay.lds.org website. It is the story of Becky and Scott Mackintosh and their gay son Xian. Today, the Church published a blog post written by Becky titled "Navigating Differences in Family with Love and...read more
The Church has added a new video and story to the MormonAndGay.lds.org website. It is the story of Becky and Scott Mackintosh and their gay son Xian. It is a touching story of a family who lives together and loves each other in spite of differences. Watch the video...read more
In the video "Feeling Loved: A Farm Boy's Perspective," Josh explains that a relationship with God takes long, hard work and that no matter how much we think we like ourselves, we need to feel it. In this honest video, he explains his struggle to come to love himself...read more
Editors note (June 4, 2018): Ministering Resources has been renamed Counseling Resources. The Ministering Resource on Same-Sex Attraction has been updated with additional helps for leaders. This resource is available to members of ward and stake councils at...read more
Last October, the Church updated its official resources on same-sex attraction, including the website MormonandGay.lds.org (in English only) and the entry on Same-Sex Attraction in Gospel Topics (in 10 languages). To make this important information available in more...read more
The Church has updated its official resources on same-sex attraction. The website MormonandGay.lds.org provides a wealth of information about this complex and often misunderstood topic. The site can help you gain a better understanding of same-sex attraction in the...read more
Pages on LDS.org about Same-Sex Attraction
LDS Church website with resources to help individuals and families understand same-sex attraction in the context of the gospel. Personal stories and videos of people who have chosen to stay faithful in the gospel as they navigate this aspect of mortality. English only, but two sections of the site are available in 38 languages (see the table below).
Gospel Topic from LDS.org explains what Latter-day Saints believe about same-sex attraction and has links to resources to learn more. Gospel Topics site is available in 9 languages, but the “Same-Sex Attraction” entry is translated into 38 languages (see the table below).
Articles from the Ensign, Liahona, New Era, and Friend magazines.
General Authorities & Officers Speak About Same-Sex Attraction
This article in the Oct. 1995 Ensign discusses the spiritual aspects of same-sex attraction.
An address given September 19, 2009. Also posted on the Church Newsroom site.
“I admire your courage and your righteous desires. You may not have consciously chosen to have same gender attraction, but you are faithfully choosing to deal with it.”
This article from the October 2007 Ensign. “You serve yourself poorly when you identify yourself primarily by your sexual feelings. That isn’t your only characteristic, so don’t give it disproportionate attention. You are first and foremost a son of God, and He loves you.”
Address given September 14-15, 2001.
“There is no need to hide behind who you really are because the truth is: Your real self is who God made. Your real self is your spiritual self—the part of you that is divine, holy, and good. It is a constant battle to separate ourselves from the identity and labels the world tries to pin on us.”
Address given September 18, 2010. Also posted on the Church’s Newsroom site.
“In the chasm between man’s ways and God’s laws regarding same-gender issues, there stand earnest souls yearning for understanding and solutions to what for them is a moral conundrum.”
Address given September 16, 2000.
“I submit that the light of the gospel of Christ
best illuminates the path to follow in coping with same-gender attraction.
In this part of life, hope for peace and happiness will not be found in
medicine, psychology or political activism. It can be obtained only
through obedience to revealed truths.”
Address given September 17, 2005.
Read in Spanish
“I express my love and total respect to my brothers and sisters struggling with same gender attraction. You who are true to the faith and obedient to sacred covenants are not few in number. I commend you for your unshakable faith in the face of the unwanted feelings you did not choose to have. I commend you for never forgetting that God loves you and that you are His sons and daughters. I commend you for not forgetting your magnificent divine potential and for using your God-given moral agency in resisting temptation and evil.”
Community and Other Resources about Same-Sex Attraction, Gay, LBGT
A community of Latter-day Saints who experience same-sex attraction and desire to live in harmony with the teachings of Jesus Christ and the doctrines and values of the Church.
Book that urges love and sensitivity toward those who experience same-sex attraction. Also available in Spanish.
In this book, a father shares the heart-breaking but ultimately triumphant story of his journey of discovery. Offers insight and practical suggestions for responding with faith and charity to a loved one who experiences same-sex attraction.
A list of LDS resources, such as articles by General Authorities, books, and websites. Also includes a 1-page handout.
Book written to LDS men who want to resolve their homosexual feelings and follow Christ. Offers practical suggestions by a man who has walked the journey. Also available in Spanish.
Language Resources from the Church
Below are links to translated documents from the Church that provide an understanding of same-sex attraction:
- A notice that was sent to Church leaders when the resources listed below were published in October 2016 (see table below).
- “Church Teachings.” This 4-page document is the translated text from the “Church Teachings” section of MormonandGay.lds.org (see table below).
- “Same-Sex Attraction” entry from Gospel Topics. The Gospel Topics are available in 10 languages at topics.lds.org, but the “Same-Sex Attraction” entry is available in a total of 38 languages (see table below).
- “Frequently Asked Questions.” This 2-page document is the translated text from the “Frequently Asked Questions” section of MormonandGay.lds.org (see table below).
- Counseling Resource on Same-Sex Attraction with specific helps for leaders is available to members of ward and stake councils in 10 languages: Chinese, English, French, German, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Portuguese, Russian, and Spanish.